When I started this blog, I had planned to be random about my topic choices, and work on ideas that people can related to but of late they all seem to be around teh same thing. Love....

I'm definitely not a professor on it, becasue well I've been quite a doofus in my own adventures, but for some reason people seem to come back to me with questions or for advice.

The latest thing I've realised (not for myself) but from my life experiences, is that many a time people don't realise that they actually love the person in front of them.

This kind of ties in with my waiting blog, because there has been plenty of times where people have wasted time when their perfect 'partner' has been right in front of their face.

So this is normally the bit where I try and justify my opinion/thought, but in reality just think, I bet this has happened to you!

So I guess the question is, is there someone who’s right in front of you, who u actually love more than u think you do? Someone you may not accept but when you ask honestly, you do indeed have bigger feelings than you thought you did?


For me? I gotta get God first, then I'll worry about the rest or more specific the 'who'

¶ 8:23 PM //  

Hmm, sooo I actually have a whole back log of blogs to put up (after 2 3hour car trips) but my last blog about smells, has spiked a few thoughts.

The point I made in the blog below "Smell of Victory" was that I expected my 'wife' to like my own smell.

And to add to this, a friend (April) went a searching, or maybe already knew but found some papers/articles written about Scents and attraction, the one that really interested me is this one.

Check the How to Smell a Mate Section

It says, for you lazy people, that women can actually smell genetic compatibility in males, as in woman are more likely to smell their 'perfect' partner.

That’s a bit unfair, we as a male population, (talking in generalisation) have enough trouble finding someone to like us, and then to find out, that even our smell maybe against us, eugh, we can't win, hmmm or maybe that’s why there is more and more male deodorants around now, females not wanting to believe their noses, and trying to make men smell nice, even if in reality they don't.

So men, have a hard think about it next time that lovely girl of yours, tells you to put on some deodorant, maybe she's not the right one for you and won't accept it

or maybe im talking outta my .....

Feel free to comment or flame

¶ 1:57 PM //  

I seem to blog about random things, I don't really see any method in my madness, be them controversial, though provoking, humorous but they end up just random, like this one.

So I've been living in a house with 5 girls for the last 9 months, and well they (well I hope they are) quite comfortable with me, as I am with them, but we currently had a visitor to our house for a weekend.

When I arrived back at the house, as being out all day, he told me, that the only thing they could describe me as, well that I smelt, not in a bad way, just they knew my smell.

Of course I got a little bit offended by that, but then I thought about it.

I like my smell, not my extra smells, because that’s just wrong, but my actual person smell, I have no problem with it, and well I'm thinking, if I’m suppose to be with someone for the rest of life, and well live closely, it would make life easier, if they appreciated my smell.

So yeah, I think that the woman I marry will actually like my smell, is that too much to ask?

Thoughts???? Am I making Scents? (Sorry couldn't resist)

PS. Yes Mum, I know you're reading this, and I shower everyday, clean my teeth everyday, and put on anti-perspirant everyday, so I am clean, they're just trying to find something wrong with me, which is obvious, it’s my humility ;)

¶ 5:33 PM //  

Timing, Patience, Strength, Knowledge. Things we all need in life, especially if we're told to wait?

I've been having a real think about how people wait in life. In life we're asked or find ourselves, waiting for answers, opportunity, the right person. But are we really suppose to wait?

I know in my life there have been times when I’ve be chasing/waiting for stuff, and not realising the huge opportunities that are in front of me. I've missed some things, or found out about them too late because I was too busy waiting for something I probably wasn't suppose to have.

So maybe I was really messing with God's timing. Waiting for something that I really wanted, but God didn't want me to have. Why didn't I move on? Because if God really wanted me to have that opportunity, he would of brought it back to me? Hmm?

On the other hands I don't discount the fact that God may want us to wait, sometimes I pray for the fact, but I believe many times people's focus for why their waiting are more selfish than Godly, (even to the point of saying they are from God) and I guess its at those times where we really listen and get confirmation from others if we should wait or not.

So I guess my point is, work out why you’re waiting? If it’s for a selfish reason, move on, go do the things God really wants you to do and if he really wants that/those things for your life, he will present them to you again at a later time.

Thoughts?

¶ 4:40 PM //