I like being mature...

Well some people would say that I'm still not there yet, and after this blog's topic you'll probably think I'm not, but well we'll see...

I bring up this maturity point, as I was at a Young Adults Retreat for the Salvation Army, and being around `older` more mature people lets us freely speak about topics. And so for some way of another the topic of `Re-adjusting` came up a number of times.

To explain this, I lived in a house full of women (sorry Jono) for the last year, and well living and working closely with female we got comfortable with each other, but well there was always one (well many) topic that always made the other gender feel uncomfortable.

See as males and females we have parts that the other gender doesn't have. And well over a normal day these can get caught up in uncomfortable positions. And well I'm speaking from a males perspective that we get the harsh wrap about this because it’s `always` about the guy `re-adjusting` themselves. But I want to highlight that it goes both ways. The amount of times I've seen some of my lovely lady friends adjust their bra straps is huge, and to shock horror, it’s not the most attractive thing.

I know there is need to `re-adjust` but at the same time, is there a place?
Like if one gender gets turned off by it, it shouldn't mean the other has free reign.

Thoughts, something to help me get a handle on the situation????

¶ 7:43 PM  

GiftwrappedByGod said...
When I was on Ignite this same issue came up... and I still stand firm that I think there's no comparing... a girl adjusting her brastrap is simply not the same as a guy 're-adjusting' himself. Plus, if a girl was wearing the properly adjusted bra in the firstplace she wouldn't have to keep adjusting her strap. Sorry, but the whole guy's "re-adjusting" themselves is way nastier than a girl just fixing her brastrap.  

ashley said...
(at a family get-together the issue of blogs came up, of all things).

aunt: who's that dude with the bucket on his head?
me: wha?
aunt: anyway,that guy cracks me up!

And then I made it my mission to find this bucketed dude. Which is you - you've got e-fame! just sayin.  

The @ said...
:$ wow e-fame

haha don't know why. im just a doofus, writing about the intricacies of life (Seriously that is a hard word to spell)

hey ash, and ashley's aunt.
hope your all well in canadia ;)  

rocker_911 said...
hey matt! it is something that just kinda cant be helped. U just dont notice yourself doing it alot of the time. Its something that just kinda needs to be ther lol. It may be uncomfortable for some but hey! that life lol. If it really bothers someone i suppose they can mention it to the person doing it in private, or leave the room or something of that nature. late mate!  

The @ said...
it may be nastier for a girl..

but well seriously I really don't want to see girls adjusting there bra strap,

not sure how I see the difference

Part of each person anatomy that needs to be adjusted???  

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